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Bad Boy or Nice Guy?
Who’s going to win
The trend is pushing these believe on people’s head that its only the bad boys that will win the dating game. Boys these days are feeling subtle pressure to behave in a way that appeals to women and a lot of them dissociate from their true identity as a result.
Nice guys on the other hand aren’t even aware of who they are, they consider themselves a divine entity that has fallen on earth to support women and are confused about why women don't like them besides them being always there to help them.
The reality is both of them are lost in an overly glamorized dating world, their mind is influenced by unrealistic expectations from the ones who are there to create such kinds of stuff that catch your attention.
Once I was interacting with a dating expert on an online session, and he suggested that the actual reason for guys not getting partners these days is not them being not good enough, but because they are chasing a dream not reality. Further, he discussed how both the nice guys and bad boys are confused and are lagging if we consider having a genuinely healthy relationship.
The bad boys are winning in terms of getting attention from women and failing at keeping the person and maintaining the relationship genuine as once the glamor of the dating period is over the question…
